January 16, 2000

I became an official part of my adoptive Cuban family today. At least in the eyes of the Church. I am now a proud Padrino, the Godfather of my friends’ youngest daughter. It was her baptism and and the celebration of her fourth birthday. A big day for such a little girl. “Una candela”, her mother calls the brightfaced little bundle of energy.

There was an instant connection between us when we met and I was glad to oblige her parents request to be a part of their lives and the ceremony. I explained that I didn’t know when or if I’d be coming back and that was fine with them. I had lunch at their house and then we walked to the church for the ceremony. It was a group event with 15-20 others “starting their lives as christians”. The ceremony was a little drawn out for my taste, sort of how I remember the Catholic Church from my youth. But hey, I hung in there.
The real festivities began back at the house. Cake, balloons, streamers, and a pinata decorated the Old Havana apartment. Built in the 30’s or 40’s, the three story building is actually about six stories tall because the ceiling on each floor is about 18 feet tall. Tall enough that parts of the apartment had been crudely subdivided to create additional upstairs bedrooms on the same floor. Lots of energy went into cleaning and decorating, but the music made it really happen.

A borrowed Backstreet Boys tape blasting on a borrowed stereo in the courtyard of the modified two bedroom apartment that housed nine people and three little pigs. Not from a fairy tale, three little pigs in a small cement pen outside the kitchen in the courtyard. Yes, it smelled like a farmyard, but nobody seemed to notice.
